When you hear that story, you might think, “wow, that’s amazing, but I don’t really relate.” Not so fast. When you zoom the lens out, Danica’s story is really about the quest to live as the truest expression of yourself, to not stifle or deny who you are, and to find a sense of home for all parts of you within a community. Which is something nearly all of us often struggle with. I know I do.
Think about the first time you felt seen and heard, despite what you look, talk, or act like, what you believe, or who you love. We all want to be embraced for who we truly are, and there’s no better feeling than finding that affirmation and safety in your chosen community. Whether it’s family, friends, or even strangers you share a common interest with, experiencing life’s smallest and most significant moments is much more meaningful when shared with another person.
This is especially relevant now, when it’s so easy to choose divisiveness over unity or focus on the differences between ourselves and the next person versus the similarities. But when we peel back all those external layers, labels, politics, and more, what we find is that we’re all human and that shared experience is the common ground we can always stand on. This is why I was so excited to be in conversation with Danica Roem.
In addition to her passion for metal, love of service, and being a part of the historic group that flipped seats in the 2017 Virginia election, Danica’s writing has been featured in USA Today, People, GQ, The New York Times, Elle, and many others, and she was the subject of the GLAAD award-winning documentary This is How We Win.
My chat with Danica takes us back to her teenage years, where she first found her community in (what may sound surprising now, but won’t later) metal music. We talk about the struggles of masking the authentic parts of yourself in order to fit in, and how she’s been able to use her experiences to relate with people from all different backgrounds on a human level.
Danica’s new memoir-meets-manifesto, Burn the Page: A True Story of Torching Doubts, Blazing Trails, and Igniting Change, deconstructs the many, sometimes outrageous and deeply isolating and offensive stories her doubters and opponents have thrown at her and shows through brutal honesty how she’s turned her identity, values and experiences into her greatest strengths. She brings that same honesty and authenticity to our conversation today, so know that you’re in for a real treat.
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